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MAKING DEPOSITS OR WITHDRAWALS IN RELATIONSHIPS?
The very best way to manage your finances in life I believe is making more deposits into your bank account than making withdrawals. So it is with your relationships.Your relationships in life are either of constant withdrawals or of deposits. A situation where there is more of a one sided deposits or of withdrawals leaves the relationship in deficit but where there is constant deposits from both sides, the relationship ends in sufficiency - well cultivated and nourished. A tw…
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LIFE HAPPENS TO US ALL BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT HAPPENS FOR US
Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, joys and sorrows, victories and challenges. It is not always a bed of roses like we would always prefer it should be. It will always happen to as it always does but in the end, it mostly happens for us. It in most cases would seem like life and everyone around us is against us or conspiring against us - and even if it was so - at the end everything happening to us serves a purpose and always for reason. According to Tyler Perry, &…
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BE THE LIGHT
The economy as it is is biting hard on everyone. People have less money for more needs. Challenges cropping up from every corner not to talk of the negativities all around us from all media platforms - social media to broadcast media. People are discouraged everyday on how to move on with life or how to keep up with the continuous inflation currently going on in the economy.In such moments, - even when we are not left out from the brunt of the economy - we can choose to be …
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GOOD MANNERS ARE NEVER OUT OF FASHION
We are becoming an angry society that it seems our good manners are beginning to go extinct. It is even worse on social media as there is constant bullying, insults and abuses on people's opinions. People are busy forming woke that they have thrown their manners and kindness into the bin.
People are becoming so impatient, confused and frustrated than they ever were - probably due to the harsh economy - and everyone now seems to be in a rush to get to a destination, up a …
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THE BEAUTY OF THE ART OF SELF-ACCEPTANCE LEADING TO SELF-GROWTH
In this fast paced world we live in, it is increasingly becoming difficult for people to really accept and stay contented with who they are.We are in a world where competition and perfectionism seems to be the norm. There is a constant need to want to follow the trend or the crowd just to feel accepted instead of standing out being comfortable with who we are. There is also the perfectly curated social media that makes it easy to see your short-comings, wants and lacks.Mistak…
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GETTING RID OF NEGATIVE TALKS
The world we live in presently, thrives on negativity. You are either faced with negative news at all times, being put down by negative comments - from people close to you and from afar - or you self-talk negatively as a result of the prevailing circumstance around you, past failures, mistakes and unpleasant experiences.I use to have a friend - though late now - (God rest her soul) who at any time we communicated always talked about how things were not going on well in her l…
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A MAN CAN BE HIMSELF ONLY WHEN HE IS ALONE
So many people today - like I used to - dread solitude for fear of being alone. They mistake loneliness for solitude. Solitude is not synonymous to loneliness - as so many people see it to be- but a conscious choice we make to withdraw from external stimuli and embrace the richness of being alone, enjoying your own company all by yourself and discovering or rediscovering who you are.Solitude and loneliness are of same physical manifestation yet of two different aspects. Soli…
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I am Rhoda Amapakabo, a graduate of Sociology from the University of Jos, Nigera.I am passionate in motivating people live through life's challenges having been through so many.Everyone of us can live through life's challenges if only we see the big and beautiful picture after the storm. There is always a new dawn after the darkest of nights. Life is worth living
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